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Name: shorty   Title: no time for me as husband

my wife of 18 years has told me she has devoted her life to me and the kids and now needs time for her.She wants to spend her time in the bar with her girlfreinds,but wont tell me when shes comeing home,and doesent want me calling her.She says im monoriting her.she is always with them or talking to them on the phone.I care and worryabout her when she's gone for hours with out checking in.I always have if im out regaurdless.I feel her freinds have become more important than me.She wont even go out with me unless they are there to.Im out of ideals.I feel like im fighting my way up a wall and she continues to add layers so i cant get over.All im askin for is some us time.

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Name: Todd

I disagree with Christine! You've been married for 18 yrs, now she wants freedom? Kids are older, now should be the time for you guys to re-discover each other. Sounds like she is showing you nothing but disrespect. She does not want you monitoring her? I did not realize a phone call "to make sure she is OK" is monitoring someone. She's hanging out at the bars, keeping secrets, I almost bet she's having an affair! I bet some of her friends are single aren't they? My advice hire an investigator to "monitor" her ass, use the footage in divorce court! Let her redefine herself on her own! Go find you a real woman, throw the trash out.

Name: jeantte

maybe she wants to be alone or maybe she is trying to find a way out of her marriage i don't know it don't sound to good at all i'm sorry to hear but you need to set rules and tell her that you care and worrie bout her and that you trust her but somting is bugging you tell her that yyou want us time instead of her going out all time.. just wait tell she is 21 you will really regret it,..,.

Name: Christine

LOL, sorry but you need to realize she is redefining herself. She did her job and now wants to have some fun. Loosen up and let her. You have been number one for years. It may be hard to not feel like number one but get over it. If she feels monitored then she feels monitored. She needs a partner not a keeper. What are you afraid of? That is the real question.

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