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Name: Kate   Title: Lonely nights

Hello, I have been married for the past year, my husband is a doctor and he has been working many hours and it is starting to affect my marriage and he has no other choice, I feel bad that he has to work and try to support him but I feel so lonely all the time my family and friends all live far from me and I don't have anyone except him. I am running out of ideas on how entertain myself all the time, I don't want it to affect our marriage.

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Name: Laura

Hi Kate,
My husband is a Family Physician. Your article is something I can relate to. I am 2,500 miles from home and lonely. Our life is full of debt and not glam. I am in therapy on an anti-depressant and still am...lonely. My husband is full of energy he is in the yard when off work. I have a terminal illness can't work so where do you live?

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Name: Jackie

I have been married to a doctor for 15 years - I find it helps to have your own career. I am a psychologist and I find that helps me a lot - we don't have children so I can't advise you on that - but it is a challenge being married to a doctor. I also immigrated fom south africa to australia and do not have the support system of family - again try and build a good support system and include as much as possible a lot of positive people who will not judge you - Good Luck

Name: beverly

I feel your misery as im in the same situation. my husband just started a pub which he runs personally.it has been going on for almost three months now and i feel really lonely. He is never home and the only time he is there would be one day in a week and only because he is tired and needs to rest. it is seriously affecting us and i need help urgently or i'm gonna go mad.someone out there please help

Name: Liz

As a resident doctor myself, I can somewhat understand what you must be going through, as I see my husband (non-doctor) being affected by my long hours as well. It is certainly difficult, and while many of the suggestions below are really good ones, it might also help to just keep in mind that these hours are only temporary.... there is a light at the end of the tunnel.... and (at least in my case) spending night after sleepless night at the hospital is NOT enjoyable, and is most certainly something that I dread! I'm sure that your husband would much rather be at home with you! Keeping that in mind might help you get through the lonlieness that is unfortunately too often part of the job description of being a doctor's spouse.

Name: Sherry

The person who posted previous to me is insensitive. You don't need to "grow up," you sound like a very mature person who is lonely. Loneliness is horrible, and can lead to depression also. I know what it's like to have a workaholic husband and family far away. I started taking walks at the local park. It gets me out instead of inside sulking. You could also try local book clubs...they are wonderful. Join Netflix and rent your favorite movies and have "movie nights" or rent the seasons of your favorite shows...anything that will cheer you up. My remedy for sadness is an all-nighter of Friends re-runs! Get back to your "inner child" and re-discover the things you liked before you got married, things you enjoyed in your single life. I know it's hard, and I know there are the days where you might want to just sit and sulk, but you will feel much better when you start discovering things you enjoy doing by yourself.

Name: Sara

Your husband is a professional. He is working and making a living. Grow up find a hobby, go back to school, find something to do with your time except complain. When your husband has a day off make the best of it. Do a table dance have a romantic, exiotic night, surprised him