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My wife and I constantly fight about money. She never seems to be satisfied with the amount I bring home no matter how hard I work. I feel like giving up.
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hi desi.i was once married to a woman like that.nothing i did was ever good enough and thats because nothing i ever did was ever good enough.its better to just do nothing at all and make no promises
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2 years ago i got a divorce and at the same time,,i was really fed up with california and the u.s.a altogether.many years ago,i was in the navy and was on tour in asia.i went to the philippines and had a lifelong fantasy about someday returning there.finally about 2 1/2 years ago i got the chance.i went there really becaue i thought seriously about retiring there a few years from now.wel i went and in no tim e at all i met a woman and spent nearly all of my first visit with her.i returned there twice since and recently i married that woman(reluctantly).i really was not ready to get married again but felt pressured really.on my last trip there we were married and i bought a lot and began to build a house on it.it was not yet finished when i had to return back here to the states.prior to building the house i put her up in a apartment and payed the rent there and some money for he to buy food.all of this before we were ever even engaged to be married.now we talk often on the internet and all she ever wants to talk about is money.how we still need this for the house and that.im not someone who has much money and i told her that everything was not goig to happen right away but she is relentless at wanting to complete everything.meanwhile im 7,300 miles away from her and that house andworking hard here in america while earning minimum wage.i love nonet but everyday of my life i fell ive made a big mistake and every day i think of ending it so i can breath easy againthe upside to ll of this i guess i that fo less than 6,000 us i will have a home on 2 acres of land in the philippines when it all said and done and in a few years from now i can live in it and have a nice arrangement.in the meantime ive managed to go there once a year for 50 days.
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Figure out what ;your wife values more than money. Write down why she is more valuable than that thing that she values more than money. Explain to her, in detail what you've figured out.
The problem isn't the money: it's the value assigned to it that's the problem.
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