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I have been envolved with a wonderful man for one year now and have for the past 4 months have been spending extensive time together with our children. However my child and his who are exactly the same age fight horribly. My partner is to leave for Europe next week and the plan was to leave his child with me and my daughter, but now his son wants no part of staying with us and I sense that his fater has reservations about leaving him whith me also, for fear that the kids will fight the entire time and his son would feel alone and sad. I cannot help but feel really upset about this situation, but cannot identify why........perhaps it is that my feeling are hurt because his son does not want me or perhaos it is because I think we should be given a chance to work through this difficult time. Not too sure
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Don' t feel bad. Try to put yourself in his sons shoes. I think he is acting normal for a kid in his situation. I wouldn't want to spend that much time with a non-relative with out my parent. I think his father and you should respect his feelings. Don't force a relationship. These things take time. Your boyfriend should make other arrangements with someone the boy feels more comfortable with.
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