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Name: Veronica B.   Title: Children in the Bedroom
I recently saw a news report where a husband is on strike because his wife brings their 2yr old and 13 mth old into their bedroom. Could you please shed some light as to your opionion on this matter as my husband and I are going through a similar situation.
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Name: nefeReoxeby
Just wondering if eBay makes it possible for you to sell [a href=http://www.ticketchoice.com.au]concert tickets[/a] on-line? Do you know if there are any restrictions based on what country you are in?

My parents have just called me and asked if i could "get rid" of their two tickets to some concert as they wont be able to make it due to yet another family event.

Apart from asking friends etc, i thought ebay would be a fantastic place to market them.

But whats ebay's policy on promoting tickets? Ive heard alot about it within the news but ive forgotten what happened.

and if it matters, the concert is inside of this coming month

Thanks in advance for the advice.
Name: nefeReoxeby
Just questioning if eBay allows you to sell [a href=http://www.ticketchoice.com.au]concert tickets[/a] on the net? Do you know if you will discover any restrictions depending on what country you are in?

My parents have just known as me and asked if i could "get rid" of their two tickets to a concert as they wont have the ability to make it because of one more family event.

Apart from asking pals etc, i thought ebay would be an excellent place to sell them.

But whats ebay's policy on marketing tickets? Ive heard alot about it about the news but ive forgotten what happened.

and if it matters, the concert is within this coming month

Thanks ahead of time for the advice.
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Name: Sarah
Hi - I'm so glad I've found other parents who are experiencing children sleeping in their bed! My daughter was fine sleeping in her own room. When she was around 3 she said she was too scared to stay in her room by herself. Looking back, maybe we should have helped her work it out, but we said she could sleep on the floor in our room. This lasted for awhile - past when my son was born - even he was sleeping in his own room. Her fears of being alone just got worse and worse. She would not leave our room. We decided to try the therapy thing and it turns out that she did have issues about being alone - she wouldn't be alone anywhere in the house at any time. To make a long story short, she's only recently been able to work it out (when she turned 11). Going through it - it had its trial and tribulations because my husband slept elsewhere. If my husband told people what was goign on, they were very critical - like we should be ashamed of ourselves. I think we're through the hurdle, and on the other side, I will say, that I'm glad that I didn't force my daughter to stay in a situation in which she was uncomfortable. She was genuinely scared - we had to be patient, and my parenting instincts were not to force her to stay alone if she's not comfortable. I remember going through the same thing as a kid. I hope I'm teaching my daughter not to be fearful by being patient in helping her work through her fears.
Name: lisa
My daughter has always slept with us, and is now 2. A few months ago my husband moved to the guest room 'temporarily', but I think he'll be there until my daughter graduates from the bed. He has a hard time sleeping with her in the bed- her wiggles and etc., which don't bother me. Since we seperate when I'm niddah anyway, it's not any logistical problem, and when I'm available I visit him nearly nightly in the guest room for some romance. I was really concerned at first that he might be upset with the situation, but he reassured me that he had no issue with our daughter being in the bed, and was in no hurry to kick her out, and it's no reflection on the health of our relationship- he simply sleeps better by himself. It's actually cleared up a few other issues too- like I love to cuddle, and talk before falling asleep, and he doesn't do either one, which left me feeling slighted almost nightly before. Now, it doesn't have a chance to come up- and when we are together in the guest room there is lots of cuddling and talking (DH just doesn't like to mix those with sleep).

So, definitely ask your husband his thoughts and feelings so you know exactly what you are dealing with- and I hope my experience gives you some ideas of 'alternative' arrangements that can work out well.
Name: Sondra
During the first 4 months of my baby’s life, I noticed there were differences in her sleeping patterns when I was not in the bed with her. Her breathing would become irregular rather than the quiet and regular breathing patterns I was used to when we slept together As soon as I picked her up and put her next to me in bed, she breathed regularly. I also noticed that she would turn onto her stomach after awhile once I came out of the bed, this is not something she would do when I was in the bed. I believe that mothers and babies breathe in synchronization and therefore this breathing connection is responsible for the changes. Most parents throughout the world sleep with their babies, why is this custom so taboo in our society.
Name: Sheri
I think anyone considering this should think twice. We had both of our children in our bed, the oldest we were able to get into her own bed at 2 years, however, my youngest still does not want to sleep on his own he is now 7. This situation is really hurting our intimacy in our marriage, we need to spend together. I can’t get him to sleep in his own room, he will stay up all night. My husband and I end up taking turns sleeping on the couch or sleeping in his room. We even went as far as getting him to make the choices as far as decorating his room, however, at nights he does not want to sleep there. I don’t know what to do, we are considering taking him to see a counsellor with the hopes that this situation can be solved before it takes a strain on our marriage. Based on the experiences we are now having I would not recommend you doing it.
Name: Constance W.
My daughter is 1 ½ and still sleeps in our bed, I too feel that this creates a close child/parent bond during an important stage in a childs’ formative years. This is our second child, our first started sleeping in his own bed at the age of 3. The transition process took place over the course of 3 months. My husband had no problem with our arrangement but I feel this has more with the fact that he does not have to get up during the night to help out than anything else. I know that this can have an pronounced effect on the alone time that couples should have with one another, however, you need to make time to be together. Perhaps once a month you could have a sitter take care of the kids, include a date day or night into your weekly schedule. Even though at times it may seem as though it’s too much work you need to set aside time alone and away with each other.
Name: Rhona
I too made our daughter sleep in our bed, she is now 15 years old and the relationship that we have is great. I don't think there is anything wrong with parents letting kids sleep in the bed.